Your life is your responsibility

Your life is your responsibility

It does not matter which way I look at the interrelation of energies in human relationships. The Self has to be built regardless, in order to understand that you are responsible for not only your deeds, words and thoughts but for those of every human being because you are also affected by their deeds, words and thoughts.

However it is very easy to get lost on the road to fulfillment. Nevertheless one thing is for sure: there is no easy way leading there, therefore spiritual development is a must. Unfortunately the fear of being different keeps a lot of people away from the search.

Besides the misconception concerning the meaning of spirituality and religion only add to the task load. I would like to clarify this particular aspect of your understanding.

A religion is a set of beliefs and practices often centred upon specific supernatural and moral claims about reality. Becoming part of a religious group only requires acceptance of the mentioned beliefs; while spirituality is an individual and sometimes lonely path to walk in order to become one with the Creator Force.

The way I see it, religion is private. As such it should not be an obstacle between two people who would want to commit to each other. Besides,  conscience is not made by a religion.

Responsibility shift

People who are shifting the responsibility of living and life’s duties towards the Divine would make the belief the number one question in couplehood. Those earthlings give up life on a big scale because they serve certain rules and regulations for the authority over their lives’ in return.

When I enquire about the essence of a particular religion from everyday followers great majority of them states LOVE as the most important message received. Think about it!

Responsibility in your beliefs

Christians state that people outside of their faith are not good enough; Jews do not value women similarly to Muslim authorities, Hindus burn their own flesh and blood, Buddhists kill, rape and enslave Muslims and so on. It makes me wonder. Where is the love they talk about? What kind of love is that?

How do you want to live with this attitude within your family unit?

Your responsibility stretches over your partner in a relationship!

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Mother and Son

Mother and Son relationships?

While the girls are fulfilling the expectations of the mothers, the boys are fulfilling the dreams of the mothers. They are pushed towards professions appealing to the mother, those she would have liked for her husband. Choices that make her proud.

Mother and Son

create a special bond from the first minute. From day one the mother treats her son differently. She looks at him as if he was the prince on a white horse she could never have but now she has the opportunity to love and cherish. He is the male that belongs to her forever. The father  fades into the background. As the result the relationship is pushed to the edge and usually never recovers.

It is also interesting to observe that female divorcees with sons would usually end up alone due to the lack of interest while those with daughters do not give up the search easily.

The rockier the marriage, the stronger the bond. Hence the mother will prefer her relationship to the new male in the family rather than the existing one in the relationship. Consequently it is vital to start some professional family coaching prior to the arrival of a male that takes few months into the existence of a unit. Feeling and thoughts need to be clarified for the sake of every person involved.

Nevertheless the mother’s bond to the son mirrors her relationship to the self, to life, to her parents and also her sexuality. In one word it is the certificate on her existence as a human being.

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The Secret

The Secret

is only what you do not understand. And if you do not understand it there is no point of talking about it. However for me it is natural that if you want something very much you would have a better chance of getting it.

The secret is brain focus

The more you want it the more thought forms you allocate in your brain to support your quest. Your utmost trust and belief is required as well as your 100% of your focus. There isn’t any room for plan B or C created by insecurity or fear. As the result focusing will provide you with a better chance, nevertheless without the main ingredient you will never get there. This important component is work. Without it your wishes will remain idle thoughts with no substance to fall back on.

On the other hand when you start working towards your goal the whole Universe joins in to help. Another important issue one needs to look at is possibility. If at the age of 45 you decide to become a prima ballerina with 100% focus, no B plan and no C plan to weaken the project and you actually go to ballet classes 4 hours a day, it would never give you the result you hope for.

Similarly if you want the latest Mercedes without having means to finance it, your dream will be a waste of time. However with many years of hard work you might be able to save up the money.

My saddest example is the many hungry children at certain places on the planet. Nobody would want a piece of bread more and unfortunately the wish is not enough to feed starving nations.

I have almost forgotten my very favourite laws of attraction project, the miracle box. When one puts the wish into this box and waits for the result without lifting a finger…How gullable people can be?

The secret is learning

It is not the kind of secret I want to talk about. My subject is the hidden essence of life. Now I am going to start somewhere hoping that I arrive to the conclusion needed for the understanding of my theory.

As I mentioned earlier, souls come down to Earth for experience and a healthy push with their evolution. Earth school is unique due to the physical body we need to wear here. This body is the tool we have to learn. It is interesting to observe new souls how much more difficult for them to learn the usage of the physical body. They start walking and talking at a far later stage than old souls did, for they do not have previous lives to remotely remember.

Everything that is connected to the body needs to be learnt from scratch. Walking, talking, eating, drinking, digesting, breathing, thinking, feeling and all sexual activities come as an experience to the newcomers.

The secret is in life

I need to get back to the idea that everything is interrelated and as the consequence everything follows the same structure. It is the pyramid, the 3 dimensional triangle that moves on a spiral created by the Flower of Life motion.

flower_of_life

However it is not the Flower of Life itself. The formation of life cannot be but 4 dimensional, being always connected to the Universe simply because Earth and everything on it comes from there and goes back there. We are part of the whole and the whole is part of us.

This view is a necessity when we really want to think holistically. While the Flower of Life is an extraordinary 2 dimensional symbol of multiplication, the pyramids follow the order of the numerological, mathematical and geometrical requirements.

It is also important to understand that the constant argument of the 2 poles that exists in everything provides the motion in organic and non-organic energies equally. The faster the motion the livelier the energy is. It works similarly to a relationship. We aim for harmony and when we arrive there the relationship loses its bite and livelihood.

Due to the similarity in behaviour patterns it becomes a one pole state where there is no ingredients to provide the motion needed. By slowing yourself down you add to the motion changes of the Universe.

The secret is in us

Females are totally confused where identity is concerned. It is not only about individual characteristics but a misunderstanding of the gender itself. Either society admits it or not this gender have been reduced to a physical–body–making machinery that searches for the perfect male to procreate with. They think about it as the only solution to happiness and the fulfilment of life.

From a tender age females are set to fantasize about the ending of their own fairy tale that changes according to the availability and events. It is all right to have a bumpy start, it might even be healthier to put the lovers through certain trials however for females the test is the waiting they have to go through. It is an idle expectancy for the perfect male to knock on the door, get married to and live happily ever after, naturally with few offspring added to the happy nucleus. The time spent in this state is definitely wasted. The longer it becomes the sadder it would be in direct ratio with the storyline.

The secret is not to expect

While the expectations of the surrounding grow, the self-confidence of the female in question diminishes. She becomes the centre of unhappiness for the gender, where she is required to take the responsibility for furthering the lives of females around. The mother, who doesn’t know what to do with herself now that her children grew up, she wants grandchildren to carry on with mothering and fulfilling the secret desire of inducing certain behaviour patterns into the lives of the grandchildren she failed with her daughter.

Sisters and friends are also putting the pressure on her; some for the excitement or event and others to see her in the same situation where they are.

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Common male behaviours

What about common male behaviours? Let us look at the consequences of the difference regarding sexual behaviour. The main instruments of sexual arousal for a male are his eyes. As the degree of the 2 poles he might prefer to see everything or he is a brave hunter and would choose the hidden treasure. I do not want to elaborate on the difference between the sexual qualities of the 2 behaviour patterns – I am certain you would be able to figure it out.

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The difference is in the brain

The difference is in the brain. In the case of a male the sexual centre is next to the seeing centre. As you remember from previous chapters apart from seeing the eye incorporates the work of the tongue as the tool of tasting, the skin for touching, the ears of hearing and the brain as the place for thinking.

The female sexual centre is next to the hearing centre that would include the tongue as the instrument of tasting and the skin responsible for touching.

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