Happiness

Happiness

Happiness is the result of one’s relationship with the Universe. It is a philosophy, a point of view. Although we have this misconception that happiness depends on the state of the current companionship in life, it actually dwells within. It mirrors the understanding of existence and the earthling’s individual thought forms about the word.

Happiness is in your mind

There is a serious misconception about HAPPINESS out there, for it is always connected to conditions: either material or emotional. However, HAPPINESS is not achievable through the fulfillment of certain desires. The “I’ll be happy if” syndrome brings tremendous heartache into the lives of earthlings. Due to the fact that everything is interrelated, a condition is always followed by another one creating an endless string of requirements. On one hand, these phenomena provide the earthling with the essential movement needed for constant motion in existence. However, on the other hand, the constant desire chasing and unfulfillment bring in depression, crossed emotions and lack of awareness in real-time living. Conditions fulfill only in the future, so these earthlings do not live life in the present. 

HAPPINESS is a way of looking at life.

It is a philosophy. A state of mind that only arrives by understanding events, the interrelations, the universe and the self in it. It is the Knowledge. The greatest Wisdom one needs to not only chase but catch also, in the shape of KEYWORDS in order to open untouched folders in the memory compartment of the brain. 

In the end, the quality of life results from one’s understanding of the Universe at a given time and aspect. Staying with happiness is an overwhelming emotional state that occurs when the individual earthling reaches the point of fulfillment, that brings clarity concerning the interrelations of events.

Do not mistake happiness with the surface idea of peace and harmony. Earthlings seek as the ultimate result of good living. Although they are practically the same, the understanding is not. As an example, when we say: leave me in peace we actually mean that we should be left alone in our nutshell, with familiar thoughts and ideas. However, it is the darker pole of existence with no interaction and motion. It is the greatest pitfall, the stillness, the vegetating.

Happiness is a way of living

As a cycle, life is a catch 22 situation, provided by the pushing – pulling motion of the conscious and the sub-conscious. It is the Ying and Yan motion. Although the soul is immortal, the physical body has its time limits. As a result, a cycle of earthly living is restricted to the well-functioning of this evolutionary tool. It is why earthlings spend a lifetime to protect the physical body by putting a roof over it, clothes, clean, feed, comfort it, take it to the gym, put it through emotional effects and all kinds of pleasure. We do that because it is through the body we experience and evolve. This motion keeps the body alive. On the other hand, in the mind, we rush through life only touching the steps we planned to walk while thinking about the next station on the row.

Live in the present!

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The metaphysical relationship of the stones
Rocks & Light in Petra Jordan. Photo Zs.T.

When I got up this morning I started to think. Well, it is not a big deal really for thoughts usually start occupying my mind at the very first conscious moment after waking. Considering the aspect of my occupation – business, life purpose, hobby, and curiosity – I would generally find the life of humanity in the centre of my pondering.

I have not been a great friend of facebook since ever really but recently it started to bug me. It is nothing to do with Mr Zuckerberg or the structure of the social media application. It is rather to do with the content.

Have you noticed how the content of facebook has changed in recent years? Out of that time, 2019 sows the most dramatic decrease in value. With millions of groups without real purpose provide platforms to complain, moan and to blame. They teach you how to find a culprit for every event – past, present and future – that ails you. And if you happened to be one of those intelligent human beings who leave the past behind where it belongs, they would make sure to put a bug into your mind in order to start doubting your choices.

Today the platform is swamped with self-appointed esoteric groups without any esoteric value whatsoever. Esoteric is a Greek word meaning the highest knowledge available to mankind. Clearly, it is a very scarcely known fact around. The event that these groups announce help for those in need, only adds to the misperception. Merely they provide space for members to put up confusing questions about the lack of their decision-making abilities, waiting for answers from the more fortunate or whoever is having the time to read them. One might say that talking about problems eases the load. It is true. However, it would not bring you a solution. You empty your mind so you have this false understanding that you dealt with the situation and put it aside. To stay in the game you grab a new thought and put it out there again. Eventually, you will end up with a pile of unsolved situation to confuse you further. Have you ever thought about actually spending some time on each of your questions and figure them out by yourself? I know it is time-consuming, so is the constant posting and waiting for help that never comes. I am sorry to tell you but not many people are out there who pay attention to your troubles. Let alone thinking about them. They only want to air the thoughts they picked up somewhere and gain a bit of a glorification.

I also happened to know that people like free stuff: free advice, free reading, free healing and so on. But guys, you really need to think! You have to pay for the time at least, what somebody invests into your life. You do not spend your precious moments on your own trouble and expect others to do it for you? Please!

I also am dreaded to see any more pictures of cute animals. It is saddening how earthlings relate to them. Yesterday I came across one with a dog sitting, its front legs protectively around a kitten. In the comments, people melted: how cute! and so on. We know that dogs and cats do not really like each other very much. However, they managed to put it aside and comfort each other in need. But this is something the hazy eyed observers could not see. We people kill each other. Condemn others due to the colour of their skin, their origin, social background and different understanding of life. We talk about the same species and these are not even qualities! We kill our own children, parents and other relatives generally considered family.

There was another interesting post I have seen. An elephant killed the man who was about to shoot it. And people were praising the animal for its bravery. And yes, it was a narrow chance. On the other hand, earthlings sit down, suffer and moan living under the jurisdiction of persons they would never talk to if they met on the street, and do nothing. Only moan. Only complain. And very often they wait for some kind of heavenly interruption. The elephant who lives under the same heavenly ruling – whatever your belief system allows it to be – understands that its life is its responsibility and needs to treasure it. Why this basic understanding cannot spring out of the minds of earthlings? If you are so much into animals, please learn from them at least! They only kill if attached or for survival and definitely help each other in any circumstances.

I would suggest you make decisions about the quality of your life and work on it. Solve past situations, live the present and look forward to the future! Life is extraordinarily beautiful. See it! Feel it!

Have a good life!

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Responsibility is yours

Responsibility is yours

It does not matter which way I look at the interrelation of energies in human relationships. The Self has to be built regardless, in order to understand that you are responsible for not only your deeds, words and thoughts but for those of every human being because you are also affected by their deeds, words and thoughts.

However it is very easy to get lost on the road to fulfillment. Nevertheless one thing is for sure: there is no easy way leading there, therefore spiritual development is a must. Unfortunately the fear of being different keeps a lot of people away from the search.

Besides the misconception concerning the meaning of spirituality and religion only add to the task load. I would like to clarify this particular aspect of your understanding.

A religion is a set of beliefs and practices often centred upon specific supernatural and moral claims about reality. Becoming part of a religious group only requires acceptance of the mentioned beliefs; while spirituality is an individual and sometimes lonely path to walk in order to become one with the Creator Force.

The way I see it, religion is private. As such it should not be an obstacle between two people who would want to commit to each other. Besides,  conscience is not made by a religion.

Responsibility shift

People who are shifting the responsibility of living and life’s duties towards the Divine would make the belief the number one question in couplehood. Those earthlings give up life on a big scale because they serve certain rules and regulations for the authority over their lives’ in return.

When I enquire about the essence of a particular religion from everyday followers great majority of them states LOVE as the most important message received. Think about it!

Responsibility in your beliefs

Christians state that people outside of their faith are not good enough; Jews do not value women similarly to Muslim authorities, Hindus burn their own flesh and blood, Buddhists kill, rape and enslave Muslims and so on. It makes me wonder. Where is the love they talk about? What kind of love is that?

How do you want to live with this attitude within your family unit?

Your responsibility stretches over your partner in a relationship!

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Father – daughter relationship

Father – daughter relationship

In most families daughters favour fathers over mothers. It is in many ways a very logical behaviour even though it could bring a lot of mishaps, misunderstandings and unhappiness into the lives of people closely involved. 

Father – daughter connection

The secret of the daughters favour fathers behaviour is the fact that they are representing the two poles of existence; the father is the first male and the prototype of a gender and behaviour. 

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Mother and Son

Mother and Son relationships?

While the girls are fulfilling the expectations of the mothers, the boys are fulfilling the dreams of the mothers. They are pushed towards professions appealing to the mother, those she would have liked for her husband. Choices that make her proud.

Mother and Son

create a special bond from the first minute. From day one the mother treats her son differently. She looks at him as if he was the prince on a white horse she could never have but now she has the opportunity to love and cherish. He is the male that belongs to her forever. The father  fades into the background. As the result the relationship is pushed to the edge and usually never recovers.

It is also interesting to observe that female divorcees with sons would usually end up alone due to the lack of interest while those with daughters do not give up the search easily.

The rockier the marriage, the stronger the bond. Hence the mother will prefer her relationship to the new male in the family rather than the existing one in the relationship. Consequently it is vital to start some professional family coaching prior to the arrival of a male that takes few months into the existence of a unit. Feeling and thoughts need to be clarified for the sake of every person involved.

Nevertheless the mother’s bond to the son mirrors her relationship to the self, to life, to her parents and also her sexuality. In one word it is the certificate on her existence as a human being.

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